Context matters.

Wife from next room: Who is Charlie Kirk?

Me: (Formulating just the right withering put-down …)

Wife: He’s been shot and killed.

Me: (Mute, with thoughts I shouldn’t oughta been thinking, not even for a few seconds …)

He won’t be the last. We really are a mess.

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